February 14,2011

I thought today would be hard, but it wasn't.  I have my kids and they are the greatest loves of my life.  I also think seeing people happy who normally aren't helped as well.  A good friend of mine got a boyfriend, that is special because when I met her last year she had all but give up on finding love. She was married before and that marriage was terrible he treated her like crap, called her names because she had gained a bunch of weight so he thought it was o.k. that he cheated on her, so all she ever thought that no man would ever want he since she gained weight. I am glad she was proven wrong. 


What makes her story so special is she as know this guy most of her life, they had lost contact with one another. He had been looking for her for years. Thanks to her finding his cousin on Facebook they have reconnected.  That gives me some kind of hope that there is someone out there for everyone. So today ended up being a happy day after all. 


Finding happiness is kind of hard but I know in the end it will be worth it. I have also learned that  when I do look for that someone to look at the from the inside out. I know sometimes that can be hard, but that what makes happiness happen.  Also from learning from my past get to know someone better before you rush into a relationship. I tend to move to fast in relationships and not able to get to know the person I am with. I am happy about some of the mistakes I have made because I know I have learned from them. I try to teach my daughters this. It's not easy because they are teens and they look what is on the outside. All teens do that it is normal.


I hope  everyone had an amazing Valentines Day!