Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Day 21- A picture of your biggest insecurity.

The insecurity of being alone! Never finding someone to love again

GREED

So much drama has be going on since my step grandfather past away! I am try to figure out why people have to act like complete ass when someone passes away.  Gene that the step grandfather his daughter was acting so nice, she was telling my parents Thank you for taking such good care of her father.  She has always been the the Wahoo as Me type.  My dad left me and cheated on my mom wahwah wah. Finally my sister told her,Hey look you where not the only one who was hurt, Our mom had 3 other siblings , my grandmother left her family sorta to get married, she was cheating on my grandfather too.

Before Gene Died he told his daughter"don't burn my ass" . Guess what she did she had his ass burned. she tried to pull the it cost to much to busy him, but my sister and mom went on the website to the funeral home and it cost the same. He has a plot from my family it was paid for. At 1st she wasn't going to bury the ashes with my grandmother and keep some ashes. All of a sudden she decided to keep the ashes and give my mom a little mason jar to bury with my grandmother.

OK here is where the dram begins. My sister found out that Gene didn't want to be cremated and freaked out and call his daughter and yelled at her even after mom told her not to.  She told my sister well its not far all got spend time with him and my dad wasn't there for me.. the thing is yes he visited her but she didn't want to make any effort as he got older. But who cares.  Before the argument my dad went to the funeral home to pick up the Mason jar of ashes and they went ahead and gave my dad the ashes. So my dad called Gene's daughter and told her that he would take the ashes over to her son so he could give them to her when he went to Florida to visit, she was fine with it , until my sister called . The funeral home called and told my dad to bring both things of ashes back that the only person who was allowed to pick them up was his grandson or daughter. Her husband called cursing out the director and threatening to sue them. 

After all that drama I figured out it was all done and my uncle pitched a fit about an old telephone table that belonged to Gene's mom. he acted like a 5 year old about it. Gene promised it to his daughter she is gonna be mad when she finds out,  I guess I don't understand why people act the way they do when someone passes away always wanting there stuff. I guess because I am not that way. I like being peaceful and that is the way it should be.. The thing is Gene started out in life pretty successful but as he got older he has really nothing that is sad.. That just shows everyone needs a Will.

I can't wait until we get all Gene and my Grandmother stuff out of the house so hopefully the greedy drama will be gone.

Monday, November 28, 2011

Day 20 Some place you would love to Visit Someday!

Sydney Australia .. I would love to see the Sydney Opera House .. also any other part of Australia as a matter of fact!

Saturday, November 26, 2011

Day 19 - A picture of you when you were little.

Me on the Left and my sister Eve on the Right I was 2 or 3

Friday, November 25, 2011

Day 18 A picture of my pets

I am aware I am a couple days behind, I haven't had too much access to a computer!!
Zeke is the Gray one and Baby is the tiger striped one.  They are female's Baby is Zekes mom.

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Sunday, November 20, 2011

Day 16 - A picture of someone who inspires you.

My Pawpaw Honea.. He may not be here anymore, but he made me the person I am today!

Saturday, November 19, 2011

Day 15 Picture of my childhood home



Sorry I suck using paint on the computer

Friday, November 18, 2011

Day 14- A picture that makes you laugh.

My Aunt after she fluffed her hair out! She is the crazest person I know!

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Day 12 A picture of something you hate

The weird thing is I love Grits and they are made of Hominy

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Day 11 Favorite food

Vegetable Lo Mein  

Monday, November 14, 2011

On 11/11/11

On 11/11/11 my step grandfather Gene McGibony Passed away! Kinda surprising but not!  As long as I can thing 10 maybe 20 years he had been suffering from breathing issues , I think he had COPD. His health had been declining for so many years. My sister and I would always say that we would give him a couple of years. But, by our surprise he always surpass that by far.  The doctors pretty much said the reason he had lasted so long was because he worked out almost everyday.  I wasn't super close to him growing up he and my grand mother where married about 40 years. He was really serious and when I was little and spend the night with them he would get so upset if I played to loudly, I mostly stayed home with my Paw Paw Honea. 
As a child

Mr. Muscels 1955

late 1970's

2004

But as I got older I appreciated him more.  He and my Nan thats what I called my grandmother bought a Pizza Resturant called Tony's Pizza.  I loved hanging out there. I remember washing dishes on the weekends.  I didn't get payed that much. but I really enjoyed doing it.  

Other Facts about Mac (my step grandfather) In 1955 he was Mr. Muscels Atlanta. He loved working out. He liked his beer and he loved my Gandmother! I know he will be missed he is the only Great Grandfather on my Mom's side of the family that My kids as well as my sisters kids know.  My moms siblings didn't really care for him due to the fact he isn't my Paw Paw, so they never really brought there kids around him. It is sad how people are. I will admit. I haven't seen him too much sinch Nan passed away 1 1/2 years ago. He kind was to himself he slept or not home. Thanks me and mostly my family we always made sure he was fed and doing as well .

I know he is gonna be missed by many. Today is his visitation 2-4pm 6-8pm tomorrow is the service and he will be cremated and placed at the foot of my granmothers grave.

R.I.P. Clifford Eugene McGibony.

Day 10 A picture of you when you were little.

Sunday, November 13, 2011

Day 9 - A talent of yours

Drawing.. not as good as I was when I was younger, but still have some skills!

Saturday, November 12, 2011

Day 8- A picture of the best moment of your life

Anytime I can spend with my children. This is an old pic of me and the girls on vacation in Gatlinburge Tennessee

Friday, November 11, 2011

Day 7 Picture of something you love.

This is my favorite Picture of my Favorite 2 girls in the world!

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Day 5 - A place that makes you happy.

The Great Smokey Mountains. My favorite place to be.. Beautiful and relaxing. I took this picture on our last vacation in March of this year. This was taken at Kolbs Farm I think I got the name right.

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Day 4 Picture of Yourself 10 Years Ago

This back when I was my ex fience I am so glad I'm not with him anymore. Sure a depressing time in my life!

Monday, November 7, 2011

Doing the Photo Challange!

I am now on day 3.  I figured this would be a great wayfor people to get to know who I am without seeming to be too personal and creepy! Now people can see the real me not is in the outside,but the inside as well. My youngerst child is doing this so I figured I would too. I figure this would be better than Blogging everyday and somedays if I have a story to tell about the pic then I will. This works out so much better. I felt like when I was blogging everyday I would have to find something to talk about and sometimes it was either boring or I was complaining about stuff, I really don't like doing that. I may do a rando blog sometimes when I really want to share something. 

Have a Wonderful day and enjoy this most BEAUTIFUL fall weather. Until tomorrow xoxox

Day 3 Post a a pic of a Book you already own!

''To Kill AMocking Bird''

by Harper Lee



Sunday, November 6, 2011

Day 2

Something that makes me Happy!

Fall Leaves

Saturday, November 5, 2011

Day 1 of Photo Challange

Picture of self 1st day of Challenge