GREED

So much drama has be going on since my step grandfather past away! I am try to figure out why people have to act like complete ass when someone passes away.  Gene that the step grandfather his daughter was acting so nice, she was telling my parents Thank you for taking such good care of her father.  She has always been the the Wahoo as Me type.  My dad left me and cheated on my mom wahwah wah. Finally my sister told her,Hey look you where not the only one who was hurt, Our mom had 3 other siblings , my grandmother left her family sorta to get married, she was cheating on my grandfather too.

Before Gene Died he told his daughter"don't burn my ass" . Guess what she did she had his ass burned. she tried to pull the it cost to much to busy him, but my sister and mom went on the website to the funeral home and it cost the same. He has a plot from my family it was paid for. At 1st she wasn't going to bury the ashes with my grandmother and keep some ashes. All of a sudden she decided to keep the ashes and give my mom a little mason jar to bury with my grandmother.

OK here is where the dram begins. My sister found out that Gene didn't want to be cremated and freaked out and call his daughter and yelled at her even after mom told her not to.  She told my sister well its not far all got spend time with him and my dad wasn't there for me.. the thing is yes he visited her but she didn't want to make any effort as he got older. But who cares.  Before the argument my dad went to the funeral home to pick up the Mason jar of ashes and they went ahead and gave my dad the ashes. So my dad called Gene's daughter and told her that he would take the ashes over to her son so he could give them to her when he went to Florida to visit, she was fine with it , until my sister called . The funeral home called and told my dad to bring both things of ashes back that the only person who was allowed to pick them up was his grandson or daughter. Her husband called cursing out the director and threatening to sue them. 

After all that drama I figured out it was all done and my uncle pitched a fit about an old telephone table that belonged to Gene's mom. he acted like a 5 year old about it. Gene promised it to his daughter she is gonna be mad when she finds out,  I guess I don't understand why people act the way they do when someone passes away always wanting there stuff. I guess because I am not that way. I like being peaceful and that is the way it should be.. The thing is Gene started out in life pretty successful but as he got older he has really nothing that is sad.. That just shows everyone needs a Will.

I can't wait until we get all Gene and my Grandmother stuff out of the house so hopefully the greedy drama will be gone.